The Big Fresh September 8, 2018 Mothers of the Brides
Whoever said that money can't buy happiness simply didn't know where to go shopping.
My friend Franki and I both have daughters who are getting married over the next year. It’s fun to welcome their spouses and expand our families. It’s not so much fun to shop for clothes to wear to the wedding festivities. We live far apart, so we mostly commiserate by email. But when we met up earlier this summer for a writing retreat in a midwestern town with a famed dress shop, we decided to give it a try together. Our hometown shops just left us feeling out of place, fat, and desperate for a decent looking dress.
We knew Judee's was different the moment we drove up. It was housed in a large brick Victorian with an inviting porch. We were greeted immediately when we came through the door by the one clerk who was working, even though she was already with another customer. While we waited for her, we couldn’t resist exploring. Each room in the shop was distinct and cozy, with walls lined with dresses. The effect wasn’t overwhelming, but as we continued to walk deeper into the shop, we got a sense that there was always one more room to be discovered.
Once the clerk came to assist, Franki explained her wedding was coming up shortly, she had been to many shops, and she had yet to find anything. She reassured the clerk, Aimee, that she wasn’t expecting success now. “I never fail,” declared Aimee. “I promise you will leave here with a dress you love.” She asked Franki about the wedding, her color and style preferences, and the time frame. And then she was a flurry of fabrics flying as she swiftly pulled dresses off racks. Mostly they were styles Franki mentioned she enjoyed, but Aimee threw in a few with the words “This is just for fun -- you might be surprised how good this one looks on you.” We both left an hour or so later with purchases we loved.
A great dress shop is like a great classroom library. You want to linger. You’re surprised at how much interesting stuff you find in the nooks and crannies. The space doesn’t feel cluttered, and it’s only after you’ve finished exploring that you’re stunned at the actual number of items in it.
But mostly, a great dress shop, like a great classroom library, is nothing without a superb guide. Failure is not an option, the guide promises. We’ll find something you love, no matter what happened before you walked through this door. It’s a new day! And I respect that you know what you like, but I’m gonna nudge you to try something new, too.
I’ve always looked to bookstores for classroom library inspiration. I never expected to find it in a dress shop.
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